Hormones and Holiness

If you can conquer this one, you can probably conquer anything!


You’re vulnerable. Why are we vulnerable?

Loneliness . . . broken family . . . daddy deficit . . . broken fences (previous experience) . . . porn poisoning.

Can a man scoop a flame into his lap
and not have his clothes catch on fire?
Proverbs 6:27 (NLT)

Can he walk on hot coals
and not blister his feet?
Proverbs 6:28 (NLT)

Why be captivated, my son, by an immoral woman,
or fondle the breasts of a promiscuous woman?
Proverbs 5:20 (NLT)

For the lord sees clearly what a man does,
examining every path he takes.
Proverbs 5:21 (NLT)

An evil man is held captive by his own sins;
they are ropes that catch and hold him.
Proverbs 5:22 (NLT)

He will die for lack of self-control;
he will be lost because of his great foolishness.
Proverbs 5:23 (NLT)

Hormones have no brain.  Hormones cause blindness.
We become blind to the cost.

It’s a big deal – for you.  To God.

God’s will is for you to be holy, so stay away from all sexual sin.
1 Thessalonians 4:3 (NLT)

Then each of you will control his own body and live in holiness and honor―
1 Thessalonians 4:4 (NLT)

not in lustful passion like the pagans who do not know God and his ways.
1 Thessalonians 4:5 (NLT)

Your destiny is tied to your purity.
“Bad love” is a detour from Destiny Road.

Exhibit A  -  Samson (had everything, gave it all up for sex)

When her son was born, she named him Samson. And the lord blessed him as he grew up.
Judges 13:24 (NLT)

And the Spirit of the lord began to stir him while he lived in Mahaneh-dan, which is located between the towns of Zorah and Eshtaol.
Judges 13:25 (NLT)

One day when Samson was in Timnah, one of the Philistine women caught his eye.
Judges 14:1 (NLT)

Samson judged Israel for twenty years during the period when the Philistines dominated the land.
Judges 15:20 (NLT)

One day Samson went to the Philistine town of Gaza and spent the night with a prostitute.
Judges 16:1 (NLT)

Some time later Samson fell in love with a woman named Delilah, who lived in the valley of Sorek.
Judges 16:4 (NLT)

The rulers of the Philistines went to her and said, “Entice Samson to tell you what makes him so strong and how he can be overpowered and tied up securely. Then each of us will give you 1,100 pieces of silver.”
Judges 16:5 (NLT)

So Delilah said to Samson, “Please tell me what makes you so strong and what it would take to tie you up securely.”
Judges 16:6 (NLT)

Delilah lulled Samson to sleep with his head in her lap, and then she called in a man to shave off the seven locks of his hair. In this way she began to bring him down, and his strength left him.
Judges 16:19 (NLT)

Then she cried out, “Samson! The Philistines have come to capture you!”
When he woke up, he thought, “I will do as before and shake myself free.” But he didn’t realize the lord had left him.
Judges 16:20 (NLT)

So the Philistines captured him and gouged out his eyes. They took him to Gaza, where he was bound with bronze chains and forced to grind grain in the prison.
Judges 16:21 (NLT)

But before long, his hair began to grow back.
Judges 16:22 (NLT)

Don't get into the situation that will cost you your purity.
Control your body.
Don't get to the point where the engine starts, cause we know its hard to stop.

The Creator of your man-ness, your woman-ness tells us how to beat the powerful giant of passion.


Begin each day plugging into the source of victory.  Everyday.

How can a young person stay pure?
By obeying your word.
Psalms 119:9 (NLT)

Commit the parts of your body to God and His holiness each new day.
“This is not my body anymore!”

Run from sexual sin! No other sin so clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body.
1 Corinthians 6:18 (NLT)

Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourself,
1 Corinthians 6:19 (NLT)

for God bought you with a high price. So you must honor God with your body.
1 Corinthians 6:20 (NLT)

Do not let sin control the way you live; do not give in to sinful desires.
Romans 6:12 (NLT)

Do not let any part of your body become an instrument of evil to serve sin. Instead, give yourselves completely to God, for you were dead, but now you have new life. So use your whole body as an instrument to do what is right for the glory of God.
Romans 6:13 (NLT)

Sin is no longer your master, for you no longer live under the requirements of the law. Instead, you live under the freedom of God’s grace.
Romans 6:14 (NLT)

I will be careful to live a blameless life―
when will you come to help me?
I will lead a life of integrity
in my own home.
Psalms 101:2 (NLT)

I will refuse to look at
anything vile and vulgar.
I hate all who deal crookedly;
I will have nothing to do with them.
Psalms 101:3 (NLT)

“Your eye is a lamp that provides light for your body. When your eye is good, your whole body is filled with light.
Matthew 6:22 (NLT)

But when your eye is bad, your whole body is filled with darkness. And if the light you think you have is actually darkness, how deep that darkness is!
Matthew 6:23 (NLT)

The righteous keep moving forward,
and those with clean hands become stronger and stronger.
Job 17:9 (NLT)

Come close to God, and God will come close to you. Wash your hands, you sinners; purify your hearts, for your loyalty is divided between God and the world.
James 4:8 (NLT)

But if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness.
1 John 1:9 (NLT)

Once again you will have compassion on us.
You will trample our sins under your feet
and throw them into the depths of the ocean!
Micah 7:19 (NLT)

Abandon what feeds your dark side.

Or who feeds your dark side.

Run from anything that stimulates youthful lusts. Instead, pursue righteous living, faithfulness, love, and peace. Enjoy the companionship of those who call on the Lord with pure hearts.
2 Timothy 2:22 (NLT)

You can't kill something by feeding it a t bone steak dinner.

You cannot win this if you stay in a sin-stained relationship.

Take no part in the worthless deeds of evil and darkness; instead, expose them.
Ephesians 5:11 (NLT)

Oh, the joys of those who do not
follow the advice of the wicked,
or stand around with sinners,
or join in with mockers.
Psalms 1:1 (NLT)

“When an evil spirit leaves a person, it goes into the desert, seeking rest but finding none.
Matthew 12:43 (NLT)

Then it says, ‘I will return to the person I came from.’ So it returns and finds its former home empty, swept, and in order.
Matthew 12:44 (NLT)

Then the spirit finds seven other spirits more evil than itself, and they all enter the person and live there. And so that person is worse off than before. That will be the experience of this evil generation.”
Matthew 12:45 (NLT)

The godly may trip seven times, but they will get up again.
But one disaster is enough to overthrow the wicked.
Proverbs 24:16 (NLT)

Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results.
James 5:16 (NLT)

Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed.
Ecclesiastes 4:9 (NLT)

If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble.
Ecclesiastes 4:10 (NLT)

A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken.
Ecclesiastes 4:12 (NLT)

Not only should you be able to trust someone, you must become the person someone can trust.

There is a lot you're supposed to be getting but he can't give it to you till you clean up.


You can now receive the gifts God’s wanted to give you.

Now repent of your sins and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped away.
Acts 3:19 (NLT)

You can see God as you’ve never seen Him before.

God blesses those who hunger and thirst for justice,
for they will be satisfied.
Matthew 5:6 (NLT)

God can use you to do mighty things.

If you keep yourself pure, you will be a special utensil for honorable use. Your life will be clean, and you will be ready for the Master to use you for every good work.
2 Timothy 2:21 (NLT)

God can give you His very best.

For the lord God is our sun and our shield.
He gives us grace and glory.
The lord will withhold no good thing
from those who do what is right.
Psalms 84:11 (NLT)

God doesn't look for the talented, the gifted, the famous. He looks for the pure.

God reserves his best for those who are patient.